Ever have friends that when you talk to them to help them, they just don't listen. Say its in your profession? You have the experience, the expertise, and yet they are married to the story they have in their minds about how things are and - affirm always will be. This my friend is a them problem and not you. If you try to push your assistance to them, its a waste of time.
Period. End of story. Here's why...
Most often it ends up as a longer debate, sometimes argument or even silence from this person in the future. The newest trend is to just leave them where they are. You know, positive vibes only.
But here's the thing, when does the cycle end?
Because on the flip side right, there's when you are going through something and need a friend. Then you feel alone, as though no one is there for you during the trying times.
Navigating relationships can be challenging. Especially when knowing when to hold, fold or if you want to inject this energy into the relationship. Impact requires discernment. First with self and second with the relationship. It lets you see sit firmly with where you are now in relation to the person. The value of this relationship and how to accept and love the person the way the are.
See, not everything needs fixing. Its a trap. I once fell into it.
Maybe because we love the person so much, we don't want to see them go down that road. But what we do when we try to protect them so, is stifle their growth. We each have a path, This path will have trials, problems, love, greatness and such depths that we each have to move through these parts alone or have that special person, right by our side.
In an era, of I can do bad by myself, we have created a solitude where many are disconnected from relationship, love, a partner to communicate with, a girlfriend or homeboy to wrap knowledge with.
The essence of connection is slowly depleting - resulting in low birth rates, high focus on starting a business and a career to the point humans are just cogs on a wheel.
When deep inside, there's a loneliness. One where you may be scared to say, so the distraction, the new control become stacking the money, decorating the home and taking trips. Those are all good, but when its done to avoid the deeper longing, its time to come home.
Affirm this:
"I honor the path of others
while standing firmly in my own light."
Its time to break the generational lines through the epigenetics that you carry. It holds so much memory from your lineage and your past experiences. This need to protect or control is often a mirrored energy from our lineage—perhaps from abandonment or parents who parented from their own survival states.
This may be from failed relationships before.
Breaking these cycles often requires a deeper dive into the energetic roots. If you feel ready to clear these lineage blocks, you can book a session here to start your path home
Either are potent to create a repeat that signals you to protect, not see where the control of the situation sits within and more importantly isolation. This is deep and not the AI or one person that tells you, you are right they are wrong to protect your feelings.
But the checkup from the neck up that saves you in the end.
Navigating the threshold
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